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Apas ki baat

“I have always wanted children, but now that I’m about to get married to the love of my life, I don’t want to. Everything is dying and going to shit, What is the point of it? But I’d be lying if I said a part of me doesn’t actually want a child…”

Dear Appa, I have a problem thats eating me up very bad. And its something noone around me can help me with.    All my life I was convinced I wanted to have children but then I grew up in this society and now my mind is changing. Im about to get married to the …

“I have always wanted children, but now that I’m about to get married to the love of my life, I don’t want to. Everything is dying and going to shit, What is the point of it? But I’d be lying if I said a part of me doesn’t actually want a child…” Read More »

Scared 4 my kids

Appa, With the government announcing reopening schools and unis, I dont feel comfortable sending my kids back to school. But simultaneously I dont want to halt their education. Im so torn. My youngest kids are around 5 and 7 years old and the eldest is starting Uni. (I know, I know, big gap what was …

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Apas ki baat Week 3

Dear Appa, I am scared, always scared. I’m scared of dying and I’m scared of losing people I love. Social media doesn’t help by repeatedly showing me I NEED TO BE WORRIED OR ELSE. I avoid it, but even that feels like some guilt trap. As if I’m not keeping up as much. And that …

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I am a 27-year-old woman who is a devout feminist. Through and through. BUT my parents are not. They aren’t overtly sexist parents but they do think some very problematic thoughts and we end up arguing almost always at dinner tables. They’re educated doctors, it’s not like they’re not aware of issues. But they refuse …

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Appa. I’m exhausted. My friend slept with my boyfriend (now ex). God knows why. And she holds the trait of sleeping with taken men as something sexy. I’m hurt, disgusted, and confused. I’m 25. We are 25, each. I thought such things would be left in our teenage. But, here we are. Where does feminism …

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A lover without love

Dear Appa,  Im a 26 year old woman who feels like she cant find love anymore. Its too young to give up, but after a series of devastating breakups and betrayal and what not, I feel hopeless. I’m scared Ill never find love. Im scared of being alone forever. But I feel hopeless. How to …

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DesiTMI

Dear Appa, So, I recently started dating this guy. We aren’t officially in a relationship though. Even in these two months, we only met twice and most of the time was spent over the phone where I realized that mainly, we have a lot of ideological differences and we both are sort of people who …

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